What does it mean to you now that you are pregnant? Has the road up to now been rocky or smooth? Is this an unplanned pregnancy? Has this pregnancy come about after a protracted amount of time, money and energy spent on Fertility Treatment? Is this a high - risk pregnancy due to underlying health issues or age - related factors? Have you experienced pregnancy loss before therefore making this pregnancy a very anxious time. Has this pregnancy come about through Donor Conception? Are you an Intended Parent having chosen Surrogacy to become a parent? The meaning we attribute to our pregnancy experience is unique as no one womans expression can be the same because we have all journeyed different paths up until this point.